If he really wanted to be with you, he wouldn’t confuse you. Real men know who and what they want and go for it. Weak men will ask you to lead them through the darkness, then let go of your hand when they find the light.
When you commit, you have chosen your soulmate. And it is the duty of the both of you to work and exert effort to keep it that way. You stop looking, and start creating. It takes two to row the boat.